Writing and photography are ways of revealing ourselves. We’re longing to make ourselves known, but we’re also frightened to reveal too much. As if this would make any difference in the world.
Some things cannot be said directly because they would expose us too much. Some others cannot be said because we don’t know how to express them, although we know there’s something worth saying. So we play in the foggy marshes of fiction, metaphor and allegory. We use words and images that uncover a bit and hide a lot.
I would like to be able to take off all the masks and, for once, just say who I am. You know, like handing a business card to somebody: this is who I am. But it’s not that easy. No matter how open I’d try to be, I would probably end up telling a story about myself. I would still remain hidden beneath it.
But I’ll give it a try anyway.
I am a man in his 40s. An introvert. The father of a 10yo boy. A dancer. A photographer. An expat.
(You see, even some of these short sentences sound strange to me. Man in his 40s? I never think about me like this. I am a young adult frozen in time. Expat? It’s not how I label myself at all.)
I started taking photos about three years ago, as a way of recording (and then sharing) what was happening in my long walks in the wild.
I have written for a long time, but it was for an audience of one: myself. Journaling my life. I also wrote professionally, mostly academic papers. There, there was an international audience, but the writing was impersonal. The papers had some impact, but they could have been written by so many others with similar interests.
When I get tired of it all, I spend some time in the wild. It brings me back to life.
I try to be a good dad, but I often feel like a kid myself. A kid with insecurities and with a huge need of affection and reassurance.
I tend to judge myself harshly and put a lot of pressure on myself. I am often anxious.
I get more and more aware of time. Of its passing. I try to make it count. I mostly fail at this but I keep trying.